Hello everyone, i have notice that many new doll owners including potential new doll owners have many basic questions about the doll ownership experience, i also am somewhat of a new doll owner myself.
I started getting interested about "sex" dolls a few years back, however i was in no position of affording one at the time and had too many questions that i couldn't find the answer to, about two years ago a decided to save my hard earn money and muster the courage to order my first doll, i was so nervous but exited at the same time, i literally spend months searching true countless websites and vendors comparing dolls, prices, features, availability, etc... hours per day narrowing my pool of favorite options, reading product descriptions and watching videos, finally a decided on a doll, i played it safe i chose a high quality doll but a small size, that way i was setting myself up to enjoy the her but the smaller size brought the price down just in case i decided this wasn't for me then i would not be out for too much $ .
But .... actually ..... i really enjoyed having her, a month later i found myself ordering a second doll a couple of more months later i order the third one, wow this was now getting very expensive!!! how many jobs can a guy have? how many hours per week can a guy work? Luckily for me i came across a web site call Mistress Love Dolls, it change everything, here i found dolls at a very approachable price, so i order my first doll from MLD and soon i order the second one then the third and they are amazing!
I currently own 13 dolls from MLD ..... there is no stopping now. Ha ha !!
I just wanted to write the background of how i arrived here, next time i will write about the initial challenges i face being a new doll owner and how i dealt with them, maybe a few new doll owners can benefit from my past experiences and maybe i can get some new advice myself, after all there is strength in numbers.
Pics from the girls coming soon !
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Thank you. This is one of the more helpful posts I have read, and I'm reading them all.
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Storage can not get any easier than this :)
The three items on the left are attachments for the shower head to clean inside the doll DO NOT USE THIS if you are new to the doll cleaning process, for those with experience it may be helpful, the two items on the right are lube applicators and make it a lot easier to apply lube deep inside the doll, i would consider this last two a most have item.
Some options to oil your doll when necessary, each has different pros and cons and interact differently with TPE.
Different applicators for different body areas, i do not endorse any particular brand but this powder is one i tried and has scent so your dolls stays smelling really nice, you can find several scents on different brands also.
Every time after a bath or shower and some initial drying i use one of this tampons on the doll they are great at drawing moisture, different tampon sizes for different dolls.
This is an air pump i used to use to dry inside their cavities but now i use an aquarium air pump since is much quieter, plastic hoses that attach to the air pump can reach all the way inside.
Care package and contents
LUBE IT OR LOOSE IT
Another important aspect is the maintenance and care of your doll(s), to be honest at first this was a shore that seemed of great proportions specially with the large size dolls but with some experience a bit of ingenuity and lots of advice from the community i now see it more as a very fun part of the ownership experience.
One of the most important things to know is to keep your doll clean and i am going to go straight to the point, i will strongly advice to clean any bodily fluids ASAP specially if they are inside her body, also any stains from clothing, dust or other media the sooner the cleanup is done the easier and more effective the process will be, i personally take my doll in to the bath or shower with me and give her a full bath, i prefer using anti-bacterial soap specially wile cleaning her cavities, it helps that i just use the same soap to shower and we basically shower or bathe together, it feels great to clean her beautiful body with my hands using the slippery soap, i always put special attention to those intimate areas and dry her with soft towels that i keep just for them, once she is dry is time to apply some powder to her skin, put her wig back on and maybe some clothing.
As far as lubricants go just make sure you use silicone free lubricants, water base are the most common and you can buy them on different flavors, note that baby oil is great for cleaning your doll from stains but not the best option for sex since it can irritate your body, cause allergic reactions and it basically a slow poison if ingested (by mouth,penis, etc...) i personally prefer coconut oil because it is cheap, a great lubricant, has ati-bacterial properties and is edible, whatever lubricant you choose just keep in mind to use plenty the worst thing you can do is not use enough and this will damage your doll even if you do not feel it at the moment, i had to learn that lesson the hard way and cause some serious damage to a couple of my dolls, just keep checking your doll during sex for enough lube since some will dry off and some will drip off and more will be needed to be applied several times.
One thing i want to emphasize is that if this is your doll this may feel like a shore or nuisance at first but with some practice and the right outlook this can be a very rewarding part of the ownership experience, there is lot more to it this are just some basic ideas and hopefully some of you find them helpful.
THE CHOSEN ONE
For those who are considering acquiring a doll for the first time and may have some questions like: how tall the really are? how much they weigh? how do you clean and store them? how do they actually feel to the touch? is it worth it? etc...
allow me to share my humble opinion.
With the foresight that i have so far on the experience i could advise the following: plan around your personal circumstances and consider that you will need a place to store the doll, you will need to transport the doll carrying "dead weight" these are greatly affected by the size you choose and it also includes the cleaning and sexual activities, the center of mass may not be in the physical center there are no handles to grab on to and the extremities may move around wile moving the doll, remember that is not the same carrying a 50lbs box with handles than carrying a 50lbs slippery bag of sand, never the less do not dis-heart if you are not physical-work incline do not worry your doll(s) will get you into shape, i myself would start with a small or medium size like Isabella, Lucy or Anna, note that Anna is usually available in three different sizes and she is pretty light for her size, also it is important to note that the weight not only comes from the height but also the width, deep and quantity and type of materials, but if you feel like getting a full size doll well go for it, it really is about what you will enjoy.
Once you find a doll that you like and will work around your circumstances the next step is the purchase, it sounds easy but you probably will be nervous and a bit worried, i think that is normal and probably most of us felt the same way at first, like most things in life big payoffs only come with big decisions.
The doll will arrive via carrier service, a bit of advice: when i purchase a medium or large doll (or multiple) i always tip the carrier driver, this makes him happy to safely and promptly complete my delivery versus angry of having to carry heavy packages, i really do it more for me that him, in fact in the past he has stop by 2 times the same day since i was not there to receive the delivery (this happen twice) and once deliver early on a saturday instead of the following monday (package was labeled for monday delivery by carrier company) because he is happy to receive the tip (no pun intended) lol.
Now is time to open the box, i personally use a cutter but would advise to be very careful and work your way slowly, once you open the box you will find your doll wrap in a blanket if you unwrap the top of the blanket you will notice your doll inside a plastic protective bag surrounded by foam blocks (save those foam blocks they will come handy) the opening is usually by the feet area, i usually cut the bag since i don use it to store the doll but i cut it from the inside out to avoid accidentally damaging the doll, you will notice that the head is not attached and there is an oily residue on the plastic bag along with a very noticeable TPE smell, do not worry that smell will mostly have gone away in a few days.
The first thing you will probably want to do is to touch and squeeze you doll, go ahead just keep in mind that the doll is probably cold and still seeping a slight amount of TPE oil so it may feel a bit different, don't get me wrong it will feel very good just keep in mind that it will get even better with the proper care, finally you can feel how real it feels to the touch! (more on that on a future note) for now i will just add that you want to attach the head and put the wig on, yes it come with a wig, some sexy clothing and a care package.
If i missed any important information and i probably did i will humbly ask the "doll veterans" to add their comments and suggestions. (for the beginning of the experience)
Next time i will comment on cleaning and care.
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From left to right :
Jennifer-2 165cm (regular)
Hulda-36 (tan, medium breast)
Holly-59 (large breast)
Mia-SDH53 145cm (regular)
Alice-SDH100 (regular)
Just like before lighting plays a big role in pictures but at least it will give an idea for those who were wondering about different shades.
Height is fairly similar as well as weight in the large models (the three to the left)
From left to right:
Alice-38 (tan)
Jennifer-2 145cm (regular)
Mia-A2 (tan)
Emma (medium breast)
Isabella (regular, medium breast)
Anna-C22 135cm (tan)
Anna-C22 125cm (regular)
Lucy-SDH22 (regular) far right you can see her hand
For comparison reasons i put regular dolls next to tanned dolls and different heights as well, note that the lighting makes the difference in shades a bit exaggerated in person shades look more uniform.
That is awesome collection. I was same way, i spent years thinking about getting one and over last month or so i was looking daily and comparing and reading what i could. There is a lot more information today than there was 10 years ago when i first looked into it. I am happy i found MLD before i spent way more than i should have. I found the same Isabella doll at other vendors for almost doble the price and that was their sale price, Exact Same Doll. Anyways, i got my Sierra from MLD and i have absolutely NO regrets. She has been with me for less than a week and i am already looking to get her a sister.
I have 14 MLD's 😁
23 Dolls in total😯
Wow! 13 ...that is awesome! Truly a Harem, you have. Looking forward to pictures of your girls!