What if I just want to cuddle with her at night instead of actually using her as intended? I already have a sex toy I like for that purpose, but nights are awfully lonely! Part of why I like this site is that the dolls are cheap...I don't need a ton of selection. I mean if the lights are off most the time anyways she doesn't have to be perfect/exactly what I want.
Anyways is there any reason why this is a bad idea? I have no experience with these things and I just wanted to see what you guys had to say about something like this. I think it'd be better if the joints were loosened up. I dunno if the guy who sells them could help me out with that or not, or if I could do something. I'm probably not gonna like sleeping with something that's stiff as a board. If she was limp it might feel somewhat natural.
One fear is that there's gonna be some reason I'm not going to want to sleep with her and then I just bought a $275 love doll for no reason. I'm thinking about going with Isabella, the 100cm one. Large breasts...I figure it could give me something to squish around.
You may want to consider a plush doll (like a stuffed animal, but in human form). There are quite a few different options, and while the skin and breasts won't feel real- the cuddling is awesome and you won't have to worry about stiff joints, either. I have a Japanese plush doll I spoon with most nights, and it is very comforting to feel like I have a girl right up against me at night.
At one point I had my 168 and 156 on the bed and felt like a king sleeping between them, although didn't really cuddle them much. They usually stay in their room under cover while I'm gone.
I do, got my 140cm Jennifer and my 100cm custom doll on the bed with my other 100cm Isabelle trying to get in on the action too at the edge of the bed. Just got my 170cm doll in today and she a BIG girl so someone has to rotate off the bed lol.
Amare is a 100cm non-standable and so far is relegated to the bed. I do sleep with her every night. Is she cuddleable? On a scale of 1-10 she is a 5. Positives are she stays cool in the summer heat. Which cools the bed and sheets. The bad she's cold in the winter & is very stiff. Once positioned it's really hard to move her around.
She weighs 37 pounds so moving her to get in position is very hard. She's poseable but it's not easy to find a position for cuddling. Spooning works somewhat but the dolls are stiff not overly flexible. Is it worth it Just to cuddle probably not. I don't have a ton of sex with her. I like dressing posing her for photographs & as a sleep/ sex partner. I'm in the process of getting a chair/lounger she & I can use. So she can get out of bed.
They are great dolls and serve a purpose. But they don't replace a warm flexible feel of cuddling with a woman.
I have a huge collection of dolls, only a few of them have been used in the sense.
but they have all been given hugs.
im not very tall, and one of my favorite things is getting to hug a hot woman taller than me.
Yeah there are a lot of pluses to them...at least in that there are very few minuses! Just a bunch of up-front cost. And yeah if Davey boy would help me loosen those joints up before he ships her out, that would be pretty cool! I think that would be the way to go for cuddling/sleeping with her.
I think the lovely thing about a love doll is they don't care how they are used. Some men use them for sex and others use them to cuddle with. Each person is different. I would say use your doll however you want to use her and forget what others might have to say. At the end of the day, it's all the same.
One of the best places to get answers to that question would be here https://www.dollforum.com/forum/ where there are life long doll owners. However, you are right she is stiff like a board, but she is cute, nice to caress and she smells good. Myself I sealed my doll/s because same as you just want for cuddling and I find the stiff joints are better for posing the doll. Perhaps loose joints would be the answer, and if you contact Dave or go to the home page here there is a section you can fill out for special request. I am very happy with my doll/s but as far as cuddling goes I rank it as 4 maybe 5 at best.