So I ripped my gals head off on accident (my land lord had to come by and that would have been a weird conversation so she was going back in the box) I've been trying to get the big metal bit off the head so I can try to get it back on the body but cant seem to get it loose. Anyone ever have this happen? Also is this fixable or did I just kill her lol

Yeah life took a turn, but I finally found the time and energy to brute-force the adapter back onto the neck!
Wow! Can’t say I’ve seen that before. That Aluminum Adapter does rotate, on the flexible Steel Neck, so, hopefully, once you get it unscrewed from her Head, you can press it back onto the Flexible Steel GooseNeck…